Polyamorous Conversations With Monogamous People

My relationship styles have changed consistently over the years, always ebbing and flowing with what I needed, or thought I needed, at the time.  I’ve been monogamous, poly, and even a somewhat interesting combination of the two which I think … Continue reading

Monogamous? Poly? Please Take This Poll

Decisions, Decisions, Or Otherwise Known As Adventures In Relationships

Back in the summer of 2004 I went out to California for a workshop on love, sexuality, and intimacy.  There were multiple levels of this workshop series, and the 3rd level just happened to be out on the west coast … Continue reading

No Matter What, The Woman Is The Slut


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I admit it.  My virtue is running thin…transparent even.  I want to do things that I know are wrong, but at this point, I’m one thigh caress shy of earning my own scarlet letter. Can one earn a scarlet letter … Continue reading

Feel Yourself To Feel Better


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This afternoon I was just finishing up a letter to someone that had been very triggering and difficult to write  It flooded all sorts of agitation around inside my body.  My face was tight with the uncomfortableness that arose from … Continue reading

Wolves and Women


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Wolves are monogamous creatures. I never knew this. I don’t know about you, but I kind of just expected that a creature that howls at the moon and races through the woods under the cover of a moonlit night to … Continue reading

Peek-A-Boo, I See You

The internet is a bizarre place. You think it’s totally anonymous if you want it to be but it never really is.  Do you know there are sites that can tell you who is searching for you by name in … Continue reading

Orgasms: Batteries Not Included

Not the same one, but similar to Pink Pearl

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Still coming down from one of the most intense orgasmic highs I have had in long, long, time.  As I sit here legs crossed and type this, I can still feel the aching sensitivity in my clit as it presses … Continue reading

A Hand In The Bush Is Worth More Than Two Fingers

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When I was 18 I had sex with my step brother.  I had just moved to NYC for college, and now that I was “legal”, the opportunity to make something long-flirted around, a reality, was too tempting to pass up. … Continue reading

Adventures in Sexting and Why I Love The Art of the Flirt


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It all started with some flirty sexting one morning on my commute to work, and ended with me in the men’s private bathroom at work fingering myself. Flirting makes me feel so alive.  It’s an instant high that spreads through … Continue reading